Kevin Kermes | Bridge the Direct Experience Gap (Episode 418)

It’s never too late to shed a lousy job description. Learn to bridge the direct experience gap and stop enduring work you hate.

“It’s painful to learn new stuff, [but] I learned how to surf and snowboard at 40!” -Kevin Kermes

The Cheat Sheet:

  • Why it’s critical to translate your skills (and the #1 way people fail when trying).
  • How can you stand out and avoid becoming a commodity?
  • Mentor relationships require as much give as take.
  • What is the direct experience gap, and how can you bridge it?
  • Learn the XYZ technique to gauge the needs of potential employers and determine how your skillset can apply — even if your background is in a completely different field.
  • And so much more…

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While it was perfectly normal for our parents and grandparents to stick with the same job for decades, Forbes reports that job hopping every four to five years is the new normal for millennials. People today are learning how to defy the limitations of old-fashioned job descriptions and transfer their skills across seemingly unrelated fields to land better-fitting jobs and happier lives. With a change of perspective, you can, too.

In episode 418 of The Art of Charm, we talk to Kevin Kermes, a man who knows a thing or two about changing perspective. He’s served two combat deployments as an infantry officer in the Army, worked as a headhunter for 10 years, and now owns Career Attraction, a digital publishing company that focuses on various stages of career management. Here, he tells us how you can adapt your skillset to bridge what he calls the direct experience gap and find a job that’s right for you — instead of settling for one that makes you miserable.

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A Gallup poll last year found that 87 percent of the world’s gainfully employed describe themselves as “actively disengaged” at work. If you count yourself among them, do you stick around because you feel like you’ve painted yourself into a corner with a job description that limits your options? You wouldn’t be alone; self doubt is the biggest hurdle to overcome when you’re looking to make a life-changing choice.

Rather than marketing yourself around the restrictive label of a job description, career manager Kevin Kermes suggests that you identify the skills you possess and find ways that their relevance can transfer to other fields. What you’re really trying to do is find out the problems that potential employers or clients — Kevin calls them your audience — are trying to solve, and how you can serve them in achieving this.

As an infantry officer, his work environment was austere, dynamic, constantly changing, and he had to do his job the thick of it all with limited resources. When he was making the change from military back to civilian life, he centered his conversations around this fact with his intended audience so they would understand that he could apply this resourcefulness to any task at hand. In an interview with a search firm, Kevin related his experience in the Army with how he could be expected to perform under pressure:

“The worst thing that could ever happen to me when I was in the infantry…[was] one of my guys [getting] killed. The second worst thing [would have been] something [happening] to me. On no day was that going to happen inside this search firm. I framed [it this way] not to be…cavalier about the outcomes [they were] looking to achieve, but…I wanted to paint a picture that there [could be] no situation put in front of me [that would] get me so flustered that I [couldn’t] make it happen…I’ll find the resources. I’ll find a way. I’ll get it done.”

Ways to Fall off the Bridge — and How to Recover

The two ways that people commonly fail when attempting to transfer their skills to another field — that is, bridge the direct experience gap — are:

  1. Fixating on what they don’t have and navigating by job description.
  2. Not doing due diligence and finding out what’s truly valued by former employers and former colleagues.

How can you avoid these pitfalls? Kevin suggests that you learn to understand the audience you’ve served well in the past. Talk to people who have employed you before and ask them some really simple questions:

  1. What did I do to make your life easier?
  2. When you think of me, what’s the first thing that comes to mind?
  3. If someone asked you why they should hire me, what would you say?

If these conversations are happening by phone, try to record them. Listen to the responses. Absorb them. Listen for recurring themes — try to pick out the problems that you’ve solved and what people find valuable in you.

The XYZ Technique

Package up this information into a succinct message that you can put in front of people and tell them how you can be of service to them — and if not to them, perhaps someone they know. You can do this by applying what Kevin calls the XYZ Technique. You’re basically saying:

I help X do or understand Y so that Z.

X is your audience. Y is the problem. Z is the outcome that the audience seeks.

To take a risk and hire you without having direct experience in their industry, a potential employer must believe these three things:

  1. That you want to do it.
  2. That you have the aptitude to do it.
  3. That they like you.

The third point is a big one, and has the power to sway the pendulum in — or away from — your favor. Most hires are made in one of two ways: internal referrals or external referrals. The common thread? You’re a known quantity. Having a trusted advocate who can vouch for your credibility and viability as a candidate is enormously beneficial, but it’s up to you to make the personal connection that will seal the deal. Listen to the full podcast for more pointers on how you can bridge the direct experience gap and check out Kevin’s Job Search Toolbox in the resources below.

THANKS, KEVIN KERMES!

If you enjoyed this session with Kevin, let him know by clicking on the link below and sending him a quick shout out on Twitter:

Click here to thank Kevin Kermes on Twitter!

Resources from this episode:

Job Search Toolbox at Career Attraction
Tape a Call (iPhone and Android app)
Kevin Kermes on Twitter
The Art of Charm bootcamps

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Jordan Harbinger - author of 863 posts on The Art of Charm

Jordan Harbinger has spent several years abroad in Europe and the developing world, including South America, Eastern Europe, and the Middle East, and speaks several languages. He has also worked for various governments and NGOs overseas, traveled through war zones, and been kidnapped -- twice. He’ll tell you the only reason he’s still alive and kicking is because of his ability to talk his way into (and out of) just about any type of situation. Here at The Art of Charm, Jordan shares that experience, and the system borne as a result, with students and clients.

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