Are you trying to find “The One?” Aren’t we all. But like anything else, there’s a right way and a wrong way to make this happen. If you’ve been looking for love in all the wrong places it’s time to try a new approach to finding the right girl for you. The Art of Charm wants to be there to help you to find the right one for you. Here’s our quick and dirty guide on how to make it happen.
Stop Trying to Find “The One,” Start Building Your Social Sales Funnel
Stop trying to find “The One.” It’s never going to happen. It’s not that there’s not someone out there for you, someone that’s a great, if not a perfect match. It’s that you can’t hunt just for them. Rather than going after “The One” quite so relentlessly, instead try to expand your social sales funnel.
What do we mean by this? We mean that when you’re trying to find a wife or girlfriend, you just need to meet lots of different women and among them is going to be the right woman for you. So how do you build this social sales funnel?
Going Out 2-3 Times a Week
It all starts with going out a few times a week. You go out, you party, you have a killer time. In that process you meet people. You meet women, you meet men. You get phone numbers of people who are expanding your real-life social network. It doesn’t matter if they’re guys or girls, really. The purpose of the social sales funnel is to get more people in the pipeline. You still want to emphasize quality over quantity, but remember that the guy you hang out with tomorrow might introduce you to “The One” next week.
Host an Event 1-2 Times a Month
You’re going out and putting people into your social sales funnel. That’s great! It means that you’re that much closer to being able to find a wife that’s right for you. Now you need to take that to the next level by hosting an event once or twice a month.
It doesn’t have to be at your place. It can be a party at a bar. The cool thing is that if you do this enough, the bar is going to start loving you for bringing people in. You might even be lucky enough to get a drink named after you.
No matter where you do it, do something. Tell the guys to bring booze and everyone to bring their friends. You’re going to be known as a social ambassador, the guy who introduces people who are soon to be best friends.
Go One 1-2 Dates Per Week
It all leads up to this: Going on dates. Now that you have so many people in your social sales funnel, you probably aren’t going to have a very hard time finding women to go out with.
Just remember that you’re selecting the best one, rather than letting them select you. When you build a social sales funnel like this, it’s not going to be hard to do just that.
