Building A Connection

Develop immediate trust and rapport

In this section, we explore the art and science of building a connection with the people you meet. Learn to develop organic trust and genuine rapport — the pillars of a deep connection — and apply them to your professional, romantic and platonic relationships.

Harville Hendrix, relationship expert and author of Getting The Love You Want, joins us for a relationship-centered chat on episode 362 of The Art of Charm.
Harville Hendrix | Getting The Love You Want (Episode 362)

You choose your partners for a reason. “The bottom line for great relationships is you have to know how to deal with differences.” -Harville Hendrix The Cheat Sheet: What is zero negativity and how do you use it in a relationship? Imago: what is it and why should you bother to care? Only 10% of […]

Talk to Women
Should You Let Her Do All the Talking?

You don’t need a college degree to talk to women, but when you’re first getting to know a woman, it can be difficult to determine how much time you should spend talking to her and how much time you should spend listening.  If you are unsure about how much talking you need to do in […]

How to Start Dating a Friend
How to Start Dating a Friend

Most guys know the pain of the “friend-zone” all too well. But once you know how to start dating a friend you won’t have to suffer that pain any longer. To learn how to turn those platonic friendships into something more intimate, check out the following tips on how to start dating a friend. Plant […]

How to Attract Younger Women
How to Attract Younger Women

For every guy that we meet at The Art of Charm who wants to meet older women, there’s a guy who wants to know how to attract younger women. And why not? They say that girls mature faster than guys. What’s more, research shows that tons of younger women prefer older guys anyway. It’s a […]

How to Flirt Online
How to Flirt Online

Do you have trouble flirting with girls out at the bars and clubs? A lot of guys do. But even more common is guys who have trouble flirting when they’re online. Especially as online dating is on the rise, learning how to flirt online with the best of them is a skill every man needs […]

Creative Flirting Tips for Texting
Creative Flirting Tips for Texting

How are you doing with flirting over text? Are you keeping conversations going? Most importantly, are you getting dates? A lot of guys have trouble making the transition from texting a girl to getting her to agree to go on a date. One way that you can increase your batting average here is by being […]