Be More Confident, Social & Overcome Fear of Rejection


The other day I watched a video of a young man trying to get better with his approaches. He hooked himself up with a hidden camera and walked up to random people, introducing himself and attempted to amuse them. The problem that I had with this video is that after about 30 some failed attempts, he didn’t change anything about his approach. So what was the point?


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Where Is Your Swagger?


Swagger is an intriguing word. It is something all men want yet have trouble defining. Whenever you look up the definition of swagger, you can find two meanings of the word; one that talks about carrying yourself in a confident manner while the other is about carrying yourself in a loud, arrogant and boastful manner.


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The Secret To Building Rapport


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Think of Rapport like a empty pot in the middle of two people, and every time one person opens up about themselves, those feelings go in the pot. If one person adds too much into the pot the other one can become nervous and start to pull away. This pot needs to be filled equally on both sides for everyone in the interaction … Read More


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High Risk, High Reward


It’s the fourth quarter. You are on the 40 yard line, and a touch down wins the game. You have line men coming at you when you let it rip down the field. When it works, it is the biggest victory of them all and when it fails, you know you gave it your all. When you sac up and … Read More


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Seeing Is Not Believing


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Seeing is not believing. Believing is seeing. How many of you understand this statement? Basically you will not be able to see signs of attraction because you do not believe she is sending them. How could you see them if they are not there? Is it in your reality that she could be attracted to you? If it is you … Read More


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Open Up And Say Ahhh


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The easiest way to get what you want is to ask for it. We’ve talked here immensely about asking for what you want and how high value people are comfortable doing so. They are fine whether they get what they want or not. They would rather leave an interaction knowing that they went for what they wanted than wondering, “What … Read More


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Attraction Refresher Course


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Having an understanding about how you are treating the first few minutes of an interaction will really help you out in the long run. Let’ face it. The first few minutes always seem like the hardest, so let’s help you guys through that. Some basic rules for attraction: -View attraction as an interest or curiosity. Don’t attach sex until they’ve … Read More


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